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Mengenali kepribadian

Dimulai oleh peregrin, Agustus 14, 2007, 02:27:35 AM

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peregrin

penasaran aja sih  :D ... gimana ya pendapat para psikolog thdp berbagai "metode" pengenalan kepribadian, spt personality plus (4 tipe: sanguin, kolerik, plegmatis, melankolis), enneagram, atau yg lain  ??? ... apa dianggap salah/misleading? benar/akurat? ngga tepat tp boleh2 aja lah utk org awam ;) ? atau malah emang dipake di psikologi modern?


trus, setahu saya yg ngetop di indo itu personality plus itu yah ... at least, kalo lagi ngobrol dg teman2, sering muncul celetukan: iya, si A emang tipe sanguin tuh, makanya begini begitu ... atau: si B mah orangnya melankolis, ya maklum la  ;D

herannya, enneagram kok ga ngetop yah? padahal menurut saya, enneagram bisa lebih tepat menggambarkan tipe2 kepribadian dan lebih membantu pengembangan personality. Bener ga yah  ??? gimana pendapat yg lain?
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peregrin

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iseng2 gugling  ;D ... ternyata sejarah enneagram panjang juga ya (dan ga jelas  ;D) ... aneh juga ya, kenapa pendekatan ini bisa diterapkan ga cuma dlm psikologi populer (bener ga?), tp juga nyambung dg sufism, sampe 7 deadly sins segala bisa diturunkan dr sini  ???  ada yg bisa menjelaskan mungkin?


eniwei  :D ... utk tipe2 kepribadian-nya sendiri, ada 2 situs yg menurut saya bagus sih:
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iseng2 tes onlen di situs yg pertama, ternyata saya tipe 4 - the individualist  ;D (biarpun kata teman saya dulu, tetap perlu bantuan yg ahli utk benar2 mengenal kepribadian sendiri, ga bisa tes onlen gini  ;D)
Menarik juga tapi ;D  Yuk, yg lain ikutan nyoba yuk?  :D

KutipProfile summary - The Individualist

At Healthy Level (Level 3): Highly personal, individualistic, "true to self." Self-revealing, emotionally honest, humane. Ironic view of self and life: can be serious and funny, vulnerable and emotionally strong.  8) *cuiwiwitt...

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KutipIdentity seekers, who feel unique and different

People of this personality type tend to build their identities around their perception of themselves as being somehow different or unique; they are thus self-consciously individualistic. Fours tend to see their difference from others as being both a gift and a curse - a gift, because it sets them apart from those they perceive as being somehow "common," and a curse, as it so often seems to separate them from the simpler forms of happiness that others so readily seem to enjoy. Thus, Fours can manage to feel superior to others while also secretly harboring some degree of longing and envy. A feeling of being a member of the "true aristocracy" alternates with deep feelings of shame, and fears of somehow being deeply flawed or defective.

Fours are emotionally complex and highly sensitive. They long to be understood and appreciated for their authentic selves, but easily feel misunderstood and unappreciated. They have a tendency to withdraw in the face of a world that seems harsh or crude, and are often somewhat moody or temperamental. They are emotionally centered and spend much of their lives immersed in their internal mental landscapes, where they feel free to cultivate and analyse their feelings. A desire to manifest this internal world often leads Fours to an interest in the arts, and some do become actual artists. Whether artistic or not, however, most Fours are aesthetically sensitive and concerned with self-expression and self-revelation, whether it be in the clothes they wear or in the overall nature of their often idiosyncratic lifestyles.

Fours are somewhat melancholic by disposition, and under stress tend to lapse into depression. They also tend to be self-absorbed, even under the best of circumstances, but when unbalanced, easily give way to a self-indulgence which they perceive as being fully justified as a way to compensate for the general lack of pleasure they experience in their lives. Rather than look for practical solutions to their difficulties, Fours are prone to fantasizing about a savior who will rescue them from their unhappiness.

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Dan ini yg menarik, tips2 utk berkembang ke arah yg sehat  :D

   
Kutip*  Do not pay so much attention to your feelings; they are not a true source of support for you, as you probably already know. Remember this advice: "From our present perspective, we can also see that one of the most important mistakes Fours make is to equate themselves with their feelings. The fallacy is that to understand themselves they must understand their feelings, particularly their negative ones, before acting. Fours do not see that the self is not the same as its feelings or that the presence of negative feelings does not preclude the presence of good in themselves" (Personality Types, p. 172). Always remember that your feelings are telling you something about yourself as you are at this particular moment, not necessarily more than that.

    * Avoid putting off things until you are "in the right mood." Commit yourself to productive, meaningful work that will contribute to your good and that of others, no matter how small the contribution may be. Working consistently in the real world will create a context in which you can discover yourself and your talents. (Actually, you are happiest when you are workingâ€"that is, activating your potentials and realizing yourself. You will not "find yourself" in a vacuum or while waiting for inspiration to strike, so connectâ€"and stay connectedâ€"with the real world.

    * Self-esteem and self-confidence will develop only from having positive experiences, whether or not you believe that you are ready to have them. Therefore, put yourself in the way of good. You may never feel that you are ready to take on a challenge of some sort, that you always need more time. (Fours typically never feel that they are sufficiently "together," but they must nevertheless have the courage to stop putting off their lives.) Even if you start small, commit yourself to doing something that will bring out the best in you.

    * A wholesome self-discipline takes many forms, from sleeping regular hours to working regularly to exercising regularly, and has a cumulative, strengthening effect. Since it comes from yourself, a healthy self-discipline is not contrary to your freedom or individuality. On the other hand, sensuality, excessive sexual experiences, alcohol, drugs, sleep, or fantasizing have a debilitating effect on you, as you already know. Therefore, practice healthy self-discipline and stay with it.

    * Avoid lengthy conversations in your imagination, particularly if they are negative, resentful, or even excessively romantic. These conversations are essentially unreal and at best only rehearsals for actionâ€"although, as you know, you almost never say or do what you imagine you will. Instead of spending time imagining your life and relationships, begin to live them.

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terutama bagian suka menunda2 pekerjaan ituuuu.... kok pas banget huhuhu.....  :-\

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Kutip dari: peregrin pada Agustus 14, 2007, 02:50:59 AM
eniwei  :D ... utk tipe2 kepribadian-nya sendiri, ada 2 situs yg menurut saya bagus sih:
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Lah, ini kok disuruh masukin kode?
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